A good FAQ should feel less like legal defense and more like emotional orientation. These are the questions we hear most often from first-timers and thoughtful repeat members.
Most first-timers come with a mix of curiosity, hesitation, and a real need for slower conversation. That is enough. The format is built to meet people there.
If you are hovering between curiosity and hesitation, one of these paths usually makes the decision easier.
If your real question is "What does the room feel like?", this is the cleanest way to answer it.
If you care about safety and boundaries first, the process page and code of conduct will help.
If you have an accessibility request or a concern that does not fit a generic FAQ, ask directly.